Regarding the Guy:
You're totally right about the "He's Just Not That Into You". I read that book when it first came out, and so many people poo-poo'd it, but I thought it made some good obvious points. Basically, if a Guy is really into you, nothing will stand in his way. I can't really blame someone for not wanting to make 'big changes' to see me, but since I have a car and could just as easily drive to him, I think in the end it probably has less to do with that and more to do with he doesn't like me as much as he thought he did at first.
Still, it's kinda crappy knowing that someone thinks I'm not worth the effort.
But I still have my family, my friends, and all you wonderful people who are so good to me. Thanks be to all of you.